What is the meaning of a friendship? ┐(ˆ▽ˆ)┌

Friend. What is the meaning of a friendship? Some say it was a friend of a friend who is really close to know little things about us. There is also a friend told me that if everywhere always together. But one of my friends told me, that friend is a friend in joy and sorrow, but know the extent to which a time when friends can be a problem, we should let him solve his own problems so that your friends are growing more mature and independent.Sometimes I casually mention, he's my friend. But when asked about my friend that this is related to family, education and others, I was confused he replied. From there I think, what my good friend? What I should be called a friend? Because I think a friend is one who can see us from their hearts, not because of the look, content, background, education and others. Therefore I rarely ask about the smell of privacy to my friends. I'm more of a giver and receiver input laments my friends. Not that I am one who does not care and do not want to know, but I think friendship is much more than we know how deeply the person's crap, but how deeply we understand the person. I've ngerasain bitter companionship when I told him my friend, it turns out he's just using what I have and others. When I was falling, he just left because he felt that ga there can give me.Just that much meaning of friendship?One day I declare A is my friend. When A asked, who's your friend, A answers B, C, D, but did not mention my name. From here I tried to rethink this. Am I not among his best friend? What I am not a good friend? It is often terbesit in my mind my friend a lot. I went with different friends. But if they are my friends? Because sometimes different friends to hang out with friends.There is a statement of my friend texted, "I do not expect to be the most important person in your life, that demand is too great. I just hope one day to hear if my name, you will smile and say, he's my friend. "! @ # $% ^ & *! That's really penetrated my heart. That's the word I was looking for. I do not need to claim anything. But when someone mentions my name, he would say "ica is my friend". I do not need to mention anyone wrote my friend, Because you know who you are. For me, friends are people who consider me as a friend. We do not need mention my friend is A, B, C, D, E. Because the first name only forgotten, he would be sad. Vice versa. If your friend to name his best friend but forgot to mention your name, you must be sad. Therefore I can only say the people who are my best friends are people who consider me as a friend.Here is an excerpt from the statement of a friend:A friend gave it a personal space, privacy as a human being. And we'll taste deket met with him though and ga ga contact for a long time. Because the friendship that's basically the heart of the bond. Ga will ilang although we memisahakan distance dimension. We must mengkui ga somehow we can eliminate him from our hearts. And without friends, we ga be like this now. 
ica says:"People always live in groups. No human being can live in solitude. If there is, then human beings are really poor and his life is certainly not in color. "